Why aren’t YOU a priority

It is really easy to get busy and put our own health behind all the other busy priorities we have in our life.  I have had an incredibly busy week and I haven’t done much exercise, I am lucky to get 6 hrs sleep a night and quite frankly my diet has been atrocious… when I actually remember to eat !!  Usually the give away sign is my tummy rumbling so much because I am starving, so I eat half a pack of biscuits or other equally nutrient blank food while I am trying to get some real food prepared.   However and possibly most importantly it is actually all okay to have periods of time where life isn’t perfect. So there is no need to beat ourselves up about it because life is challenging sometimes.  What is not okay is being unaware of what we are doing or getting so overwhelmed that we completely give up and go back to old habits.  Once you realise you are running on empty or becoming stressed it is really important to take a step back and work out what you can do to make your health a priority again.  It might be as simple as getting to bed at a reasonable hour or booking into that one class you missed last week.  The good news is you can start your day again, week again or entire year again any time you want.  You have that power !

I totally get that sometimes there are many subconscious beliefs that sabotage our life skills and make it even more difficult to get back on track.  Those who suffer from mental  health challenges, have work deadlines or even parents who need to prioritise their kids are often the most affected by not looking after themselves.  If you are struggling to put your health first then talk to someone you trust or seek professional help to change the mindset that is stopping you from being healthy.  If you have been on a plane then you will have all heard the air steward tell you to put your oxygen on first before helping others. Well the truth is unless you are prioritising yourself you are not going to be able to help others and in fact you may unintentionally cause others harm.  I had a recent situation earlier this year where I was so stressed and not looking after my own well being that it had a huge negative affect on my son.  It was a huge wake up call to me about what my priority was.  If your family or friends are important to you then best thing you can do for them is look after yourself.  It is certainly not selfish to put your health first.  It is selfish to put yourself first at the expense of everyone else or not care about how your actions affect others, but there is a nice little balance in between where you can accomplish looking after yourself while benefiting others.

So what can you do today that might reduce a bit of the stress you have in your life right now ?  What small steps can you take to make your health a priority ? What can you let go of that is taking up too much negative energy or not serving you ?

If you need help or want to chat send me a message, sometimes all you need is a friendly encouraging word to get you back on track.  And likewise if you see someone struggling take the time to check if they are okay.




  1. Omg this blog is amazingly true.. actually I feel that you are writing about me..!!! I have certainly lost my mojo.. from being so physically fit to… well so unfit.. thanks for the nudge.. I think for me the lesson here is start slow… again… but yea just start.. regain my strength. Thanks again for your words.✌


    1. Hey Julie, so glad reading this gave you the little nudge you needed. Always remember there is no finish line for your fitness so it doesn’t matter how long it takes but doing a little bit and consistently will have you back feeling fit before you know it 🙂 If it helps today at Parkrun this morning it was my worst time for the year (even walked about 5 times ) and it was soooooo hard given my lack of everything this week BUT I feel so much better because I did it and thats the reward. Have an awesome weekend


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